助人别忘护己

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　　编辑老师：
　　 你好！
　　 前天发生了一件事情，让我一直闷闷不乐。那天，我一大早就出了门，准备去学校做值日生。天下着小雨，路上很滑，我低着头打着伞走到巷子中间，突然听到身后啪的一声，回头一看，只见一个女生连人带单车摔倒在与这条巷子相接的另一条巷子口，身边散落一地的书本和笔，估计也是像我一样赶早去上学的。她坐在肮脏湿滑的地上，膝盖上破了好大一块皮，血渗了出来。我正准备掉转身去帮她，猛地记起妈妈跟我说的话：“以后你碰到别人摔倒了，千万别像南京那个彭宇一样去扶，万一没帮好，被人讹上或加重人家的伤情，咱家可没钱赔。碰上这种情况，你多一事不如少一事，别帮，你也帮不了。”想到这里，我看看周围，可能因为时间还早，除了我们俩，巷子里没有其他人。于是，我把伞压得低低的，加快脚步离开了。
　　 到了学校以后，我一直想着这事，眼前老是浮现着女生坐在肮脏的地上、膝盖流血的情景。下着那么密的毛毛雨，不知道她后来怎么样了。我觉得自己真可恶，明明是举手之劳的事却没有帮她一下，真是枉为班干部。可是，妈妈说的话也有几分道理。要是再碰到这种事，我该怎么办呢？
　　河南郑州第十五中学 张 林
　　张林同学：
　　 你好！
　　 很理解你的心情。这种矛盾的心理，是一个人的良知与现实中的某些无奈所碰撞出的结果。你的信告诉我，你是一个不缺乏爱心的孩子，只是对现实的一些困惑，让你迟缓了施爱的步伐。
　　 其实很多人都有和你一样的困惑，尤其是南京彭宇案和天津许云鹤案发生后，这样的困惑更是大量存在。所以，你妈妈会有这样的观点，并出于保护你的目的，要求你也这样做。不过你很快就发现了，妈妈要求你的与你自己的道德观之间产生了激烈的冲突。你俩犹如绳索的两端，你认为应该毫不犹豫地出手助人，你妈妈则认为，如果你不假思索去助人，可能好心办坏事，甚至可能会受到伤害，于是她干脆叫你避开。
　　 我无意去评价你俩的想法谁对谁错，但我发现你俩的认识其实是有相通之处的。那就是平时多去学习一些急救知识，以便在帮助他人时派上用场，同时别忘记在帮助他人时保护好自己。如果你下次再碰到这种情况，你应该怎么做呢？
　　 在见到有人摔倒后，如果对方受伤情况很严重，你可以拨打120或110，请求急救人员或警察来现场救助。如果摔倒者受伤情况不严重，神志也清醒，只是一时起不来，你可以问对方需不需要帮助，在得到对方同意后，再打电话通知伤者家人。在现场有人作证的情况下，你也可以将伤者扶起来，叫出租车送其回家。这样，既做了好事，又保护自己不受无辜牵连。
　　 我们其实不仅仅在帮助摔倒的人时需要懂得保护自己，在迈出充满爱心的脚时，比如面对乞丐、流浪儿童等的时候，都要有这种意识。只有自己站稳了，你才能更有力地帮助他人。
　　安 琪
　　Dear Editor(s)，
　　 Something took place the day before yesterday and it made me feel blue. That day, I left home early to be on duty in the school. The road was very slippery as it was drizzling. Walking to the middle of the lane with an umbrella, I suddenly heard a bang behind me. Turning around, I found that a girl had fallen down with her bicycle on the entrance of another lane, which was adjacent to the one where I was. Her books and pens were scattered on the ground, showing that she was also on her way to the school. She sat on the dirty, wet ground, with blood oozing from her knees which were injured. I was about to turn back to help her when suddenly the words of my mom popped into my mind, “Never shall you help others who have fallen down, or you will be another Peng Yu of Nanjing. In case you were cheated or something worse happened during the assistance, it would be difficult for us to pay them. When encountering such a case, you’d better do nothing, and actually can help nothing.” Thinking of this, I looked around. There was nobody else except the two of us, maybe because it was still early. So I lowered my umbrella and left quickly.
　　 After arriving at school, I kept thinking about what had just happened. The scene of the girl sitting on the miry ground with her bleeding knees recurred before my eyes. I wondered what would happen to the poor girl in such a raining day. I considered myself hateful, because it was only a hand’s turn to help her and I was one of the class leaders. However, what my mom said also makes sense. What can I do when such things occur again?
　　 Zhang Lin
　　 No. 15 Middle School of Zhengzhou, Henan Province
　　
　　Zhang Lin,
　　 I fully understand how you felt. This ambivalence is the result of the collision between one’s consciousness and the helplessness in reality. From your letter I can tell that you are actually a kind-hearted child. It’s just your confusion in reality that made you hesitate to help others.

　　 In fact, many other people are confused about this just like you. This situation gets worse especially after the cases of Peng Yu of Nanjing and Xu Yunhe of Tianjin. As a result, you were asked by your mother to ignore such accidents for your own safety. But soon you realized that there was a violent conflict between your mom’s requirement and your own ethics. Just like the two ends of a rope, you insist on helping others without hesitation, while your mom thinks that your good intention may lead to a bad result and that you may even be hurt. That’s why she asked you to keep away from such things.
　　 I am not in the vein for evaluating which of you is right. However, what your opinions have in common, according to me, is that we should learn some first-aid skills so as to offer help when it is needed. What’s more, we’d better remember to protect ourselves while helping others. So what should you do next time when similar cases come up?
　　 When someone falls down, you can call 120 or 110 for help from first-aid personnel or the police if the person is badly injured. If it’s not very serious and the wounded person is conscious, you can call his family for help after getting his agreement. You can also raise him and get him a taxi for sending him home, on condition that there are other witnesses. In this way, we’ve protected ourselves as well as helped others.
　　 We should remember to protect ourselves not only when aiding people who have fallen down, but also in every practice of offering help, such as facing a beggar or a thief. Only when we ourselves keep our legs can we help others much better.
　　 An Qi

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